Happy Mother’s Day Mom! I love you so much! You have always been my best friend and the greatest influencer in my life. You have always been there for me from day one. You gave me life, a sense of purpose, and have always done your best to ensure that I was given all the love, caring, and tools I need to grow into the woman I am today. The photo below is my Gram, Mom, and I. Gram was about 103 this picture. She lived until 106 years old! I have to say I am lucky when it comes to my Mom, not everyone has this kind of a relationship with their Mom and I am eternally grateful for the bond we have. She is one of a kind and there is no other Mother like her in my opinion.
I never realized until now when trying to write this post for Mother’s Day today just how hard it is to find pictures with my Mother in them. Every time we go to take pictures she gets in the picture and just before the button is pressed she’s gone Mom’s never liked having her picture taken, much like me. I prefer to behind the camera not in front of it. The picture below is Mom, Me, my husband Edward, my brother Denton and my Dad from our wedding pictures. It’s always a little easier to find pictures with my Dad or brother in them.
My family has always been a close one, something that it took Edward a while to get used to. Mom and Dad took him in right away and treated him like a Son almost from the beginning. They love him and he loves them. Mom and Edward have a special bond as well. It warms my heart to see that we are still as close as we were before I got married and as close as we all were when my bother and I were little. So, I just wanted to say again, Happy Mothers Day Mom! I love you!
Happy Mother’s Day to all the other Mother’s out there as well! I hope you are all having an awesome Mother’s Day despite the restrictions in place due to COVID-19 and that you enjoy the day and spend as much time with the family in your household as you can and video chat with your parents if you do not live with them.
Sunday April 19th, 2020 will be a day forever etched in my memory. A day I will never fully get over. I have not felt much like posting anything the last few days, too much shock, too much heartbreak, too many unanswered questions. Honestly, it took me till last night to really fully process everything that happened Saturday night and into Sunday in my lovely little Province on the East Coast of Canada. The cartoon above contains 18 pairs of shoes and was done by Michael De Adder a local (Halifax) political cartoonist. The shoes represent 18 lives lost on Sunday which incidentally is now up to at least 22 maybe more in the northern part of mainland Nova Scotia at the hands of a mass murderer.
The shoes include those of a 17-year-old girl and her parents, a nurse, a continuing care worker, 2 parents killed in front of their small boys (I believe they were the correctional officers), a beloved Royal Canadian Mounted Police officer and a pregnant mother who had not yet even had the time to tell her family, among multiple other people that shattered a small Nova Scotia town and spread to other locations before the police eventually caught and killed him in Enfield, Nova Scotia. I will not mention his name. He doesn’t deserve the recognition.
I am not going to go into detail. It’s too horrible, to be honest, and it is all over the news anyways, a simple google search will bring it up. You’ve probably already heard something about it pretty much regardless of where you live by now. But it was senseless and heartless and watching it unfold and knowing he was still at large Sunday morning was heartbreaking and terrifying at the same time.
I do have family close to where he was but he was also on the move dressed as an RCMP officer for some of it and in a mock RCMP car so it was hard to know what was going on. Nothing came out over the Emergency Response System just a tweet from the RCMP. It’s just beyond words. Beyond comprehension. Beyond anything, I have ever experienced in my life and I was not even all the close to where it was happening at the time. With all the locations (16 active crime scenes) it will take a while for them to gather more info and there may be more bodies we are being told. I just don’t understand it. I can’t wrap my head around what would cause someone to lose it like that or the hatred that must have been there as there was planning to a point it seems.
The outpouring from people across Canada, the US and the World has been amazing and healing. I hope that eventually, we will get answers, and most importantly that the families will get some peace one day, but how do you? How do you get closure or understanding from something like this? They will though. Nova Scotians are strong. We will stop looking around the corner in fear one day. We will rise up again. We are a family and we stick together.