When you needs answers…

First off I just really want to say a big thank you so so much to everyone who has commented or even just read my posts over the last few months. Your support and comments have meant the world to me. Not even one bit of negativity or bashing from anyone. Just all kind thoughts and support and I really really appreciate it. This is why I love blogging and all of you guys!

As you may have guess from the title I want to write a little about things that have been going on with me in part over the last few months but really ever since all of this started years ago. In all of this there is one thing that has really really been bothering me. The need to basically “self-diagnose” because our health care system is so broken that it takes 5, 10, 15, 20 plus years to get a diagnosis and for me at least the diagnosis’s I have gotten just never really seem to fit or make sense fully.

I kind of feel like all that is now coming to a head and that I am actually starting to get somewhere, but not because of my doctor or the healthcare system here in Nova Scotia (or Canada in general), but instead because myself, my husband, my mom and my aunt (who is a nurse) have been doing tons and tons of research and trying to really figure out what is going on with me.

The health care system here has really failed me as it has so many people for both my mental and my physical health. Sure we have free health care. I can go to a hospital and not worry about getting a bill for it or have a MRI done in a provincial hospital and not worry about the bill, but at what cost? If I had a broken bone or a very typical illness or an emergency, this is great and I would get the help that I need.

However, if like myself or the thousands of people in my province  or the tens or even hundreds of thousands of people in the country like myself who have a “invisible illness” this is not the case. I have waited probably half my life for a proper diagnosis and treatment for all my symptoms. The wait time for specialists such as Internal Medicine, Cardiology, Neurology, Rheumetology and tons more (due to shortages as we do not pay them enough) is months if not years.

The wait for public funded services such as Mamograms, CTs, MRIs, Physio, etc is months or years as well unless an emergency in which it can still be a few days, weeks, or even months sometimes. I have a been referred to a pain clinic and my wait time as of right now is 9 to 12 months, once they find a doctor, they do not even have a doctor at the moment! She retired and there is literally no one to replace her. They have been searching for months. So when they finally do find one my wait will be another 9-12 months after that.

So what does that mean? I had to be put on the lists for places, 1, 2, 3 or more hours away and hope that maybe just maybe they will have an opening before the original one does and I will have to drive half way or more across the province to get the help I need and that is not even the worst of it, some people have to go out of province, sometimes 1, 2 or 3 provinces away to get the help they need.

It’s no wonder myself and so many other people are turning to self-diagnosis. My family doctor has been my family doctor now for almost 20 years. He is a great guy and I used to trust him completely. Lately though he like so many other family doctors around here have to double and triple book patients every 15 minutes because there is so many of them. I get maybe 5 min if I am lucky with him. By the time he reads my chart he is already thinking about the next patient and not giving me his full attention. It’s not his fault. He works from 8:30 a.m. to 9 p.m. 6 days a week. He fills in for the on call doctors. I get no where because he doesn’t have time to listen and just rattles off a prescription.

The waiting list for Nova Scotian’s without a family doctor has topped 50,000 last year from 10,000 less then two years before that. Doctors are retiring or moving and there is no one to replace them fast enough. Same with nurses and other health care professionals and health care service providers. Most are understaffed, underpaid and don’t have the resources they need. I know it could be worse and probably will be at some point.

So because of this I have been making a list of my symptoms, which I will list below and I have been doing research on sites such as WebMD, Mayo Clinic, University hospital sites, etc, as well as watching a ton of YouTube videos by people suffering from similar symptoms to see what their diagnosis’s are and see if I can find some common ground with some of my symptoms. Now, I am a Type 2 diabetic and I do have Fibromyalgia and those I do not doubt. It’s plainly obvious I am diabetic and medication works. As for Fibro I am sure I have it and don’t doubt that diagnosis at all, however I do not feel that it even covers a quarter of my symptoms.

Here is a list:

  • – constant fatigue that is not helped by sleep
  • – brain fog or a fuzzy feeling in my head
  • – weakness in my neck, arm and leg muscles
  • – difficulty concentrating and finding words or forming sentences
  • – constant headache (feels like a tension type headache or pressure and in the back of my head around where my skull meets my neck and basically all over)
  • – head feels heavy and I feel like a bobble-head doll (literally swaying and bouncing feeling even when sitting or standing still)
  • – pain in my head, neck and also in my back, and legs when standing
  • – numbness and tingling in my extremities
  • – constant thirst (could be from my diabetes but happens even when my sugars are controlled and stable and not going up and down drastically and are in the normal range)
  • – constantly have to pee every 15-30 minutes, very little pee (same as above, even when sugars are stable, etc)
  • – sleep disturbances (waking up nauseous, dizzy, heart pounding)
  • – feel dizzy when standing from a sitting or laying position (sometimes I pass out and fall or just black out, I can still hear when my vision starts to fade into a “black out” and stand but I can’t walk because I have no sense of direction or where I am or what is around me)
  • – heart rate increases when standing from a sitting or laying position (when laying down I am about 70-75 and when sitting 80-85, when standing I go to 120 or higher quite often, but not always. I have gone from 70 to 145 in about 3 minutes)
  • – nausea and vomiting (I pass out just about every time if I bend over the toilet, a bucket, whatever while vomiting so I have to vomit in the bathroom sink then clean the sink after or hold a bucket on my lap while sitting).
  • – when sitting my hands and feet get really cold and blue or mottled looking
  • – when I stand my feet and shins get red and hot the longer I stand same with my hands and arms below my elbows (this is not super noticeable and not bothersome)
  • – when standing up my vision blurs, sometimes I get black spots (not floaters but almost like grey or black paint ball shaped spots, sometimes somewhat see-through)
  • – ringing in the ears
  • – balance issues and falling easily
  • – issues swallowing sometimes out of no where
  • – get hot really easily and feel like I am going to pass out especially when sitting up or standing, face flushes but my hands and feet are still cold
  • – heartburn, vomiting undigested food a lot
  • – chronic diarrhea and constipation both sometimes at the same time (ie, constipation for hours followed by diarrhea when I can finally go)
  • – shortness of breath
  • – chest pain
  • – palpitations
  • – increased sweating/night sweats (I still feel cold)
  • – asthma like symptoms even though I have been tested and pass the tests, my doctor still treats me with inhalers.
  • – shakiness
  • – panic attacks/anxiety
  • – depression

So what do all of those symptoms have in common? Well, for the longest time all I could say was “Hell if I know”. I could not get any doctor to make sense of them. At that point I had not actually checked my heart rate and I have never taken note of my blood pressure when standing so they would not have had any of that information at the time. I also likely never listed it all out at once, It was symptoms that came on over months and I would complain about them and he would try a medication to treat the symptom without really trying to get to much at the reason why. After I while I would stop mentioning it but was still happening and I would just mention new ones as they came along.

After my aunt did a lot of research she mentioned to me a couple months ago it sounds like POTS or Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome which is essentially not enough blood getting back up to your heart when standing from a sitting or lying position which makes your heart beat faster and causes dizziness and can sometimes cause syncope (fainting) in a certain percentage of people with it. It is commonly caused by or associated with EDS or Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome but can be caused by other things. She wondered if I might have EDS due to the pain I was in and the fact I have dislocated joints a lot more then most people and the fact that every scar I have (and I have a few) are keloid scars which is common in people with EDS because of thin stretch skin.

However EDS didn’t quite fit because even though I have dislocated joints it wasn’t doing day to day activities it was from injuries such as falls and such. I do not appear to have hypermobility of joints at all as an adult in fact quite the opposite. As a child I was only mildly hypermobile but I was into a lot of sports, gymnastics, figure skating, etc. I also do not have stretch or thin skin even though all my scars become keloid scars, the skin itself does not stretch far and does not rip easily at all.

POTS fits almost all of my symptoms perfectly. I finally felt like I had a possible answer that made sense. While researching to more I wondered if any of my previous car accidents had anything to do with it. Up until my car accident in 2009 I was doing really well and though I did not think I got hurt in the car accident I am now starting to wonder if it did cause some issues, since then I have been in 3 more. One where we were hit head on on an 80km road by someone turning left and then the two with deer. The last of which was just a few months ago. 3 of the 4 accidents totaled the cars we were in. Only the last one did total the car but it came super close.

On a POTS Facebook group someone asked if others felt like they were “floating” all the time. I replied and said that I yes but more of a “bobble-head” sensation and someone else replied to look up Craniocervical instability and I did and it fits the rest of my symptoms perfectly and even explains the cause of the POTS if I do indeed have them. Now, I know the dangers of self-diagnosing but at the same time, when you have no other choice you start looking for answers and I am wondering if I could potentially finally have them. I know I as well I have said that before and again that is the danger of self-diagnosing but again at this point I feel that I really need to advocate for myself and really need to push to be checked and tested for these two things. I am really hoping for once I am on the right track but I know there is a good chance we could be wrong as well.

I just wish I knew how to get the help I need to get to the root of all the symptoms whether or not it is these two things or something else all together. I am so tired of being tired and in pain. It’s affecting my life so bad right now that I am struggling so hard to cope and I am concerned of the toll it is taking on my mental health. It’s not like I can just go to a new doctor, since there are none to switch too. So I have to keep trying on my own to get them to listen and help me.

6 thoughts on “When you needs answers…

  1. Have you looked up ME? Many of these could be symptoms of that and it’s very common in people with fibro.
    But it makes me so sad to see how healthcare services are falling apart in EVERY western world country. Canada has been a country that the world looked up to, same with Sweden, but also in Sweden, the healthcare is broken, that’s why I’ve chosen not to work as a nurse anymore. Ireland, where I live now, is the same. It’s so sad that governments seem to think healthcare is nothing important.

    1. I have looked up ME, yes, and I do have a lot of the symptoms. I spoke to my doctor this morning. He is sending a referral to the chronic pain clinic in Yarmouth for me to see, he agrees with me that we need to look into it further. I am hoping the doctors and other professionals there can help shed some more light on it.

      In the meantime, I am going to make another appointment with my family doctor as he wants to see me again after getting some blood work. I am going to give him the list this time so he can see all the symptoms in a list format, something I have not done before in hopes that something will stand out. I want to bring up some of the ideas I have on what it could be but not sure how he would take it… guess I’ll just have to see.

      It sucks so much that many 1st world countries are failing so badly when it comes to healthcare and education. Our education system is severely lacking now as well. Not enough money to go around and just not being put in the right places.

  2. I think that self-diagnosing isn’t always bad, I know if I want to go to the doctor I have to travel out of town and that is not always doable, so I definitely self-diagnose to see if it’s something I even need to worry about. I think that it can be a good thing especially when you need answers. I hope that this helps you be able to advocate for yourself.

    1. That sucks that you have to travel out of town as well. At least I can do the 2 1/2 hour drive now, but its still a long way to drive and very inconvenient. I am all for advocating for ourselves, but with myself at least I find I get caught up on the what-ifs. What if it’s this? What if it’s that? And then get scared and frustrated. I wish it was more straightforward sometimes.

  3. Wow, that’s a lot of stuff…and very not good stuff too. =(

    Sometimes if I have an issue I try to look for answers online to see what it could be, before seeing a doctor.

    Honestly I don’t know what I’d do in your posititon. I guess keep mentioning it, and mention what you think it is. Its really sad people got to beg doctors to listen…

    1. Thanks, yeah some of it is really debilitating and tiring. I am spending so much time on the couch that it can’t be good for me either, but what else can you do, right? Oh well.

      I’ve been struggling for years to be heard. Sometimes you just want to give up, you know? But I refuse, you’re right, you just have to keep mentioning it over and over until you’re heard.

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